Since this blog began, it was originally designed to share dating stories, but also incorporate tales from the trenches of womanhood, I will share a story about life's BIG changes!
I recently found myself as a single mom with not much child support in need of new employment. I was blessed enough to have 5-6 months' time by my current employer, but it was still stressful nonetheless, and to boot, I had just purchased my own home after 4 years of efforts and looking! OY! Long story short, when we trust that all will work out (not naively, but really trust AND still behave, act, have efforts that support things working out) and we surrender to the many possibilities life has to offer, life really does offer good things! To handle it, I had to take better care of myself than ever before, I had to search and work diligently on job prospects, and plan for the worst ALL at the same time. I made good financial decisions, cut back in preparation, asked people for help, continued exercising, eating well, stress management, and lots of movement meditation, Nia, counseling, life coaching and visualization to keep me on good solid ground along the way! Boy, I am not kidding when I say it takes a village to raise me! ; )
I never saw myself moving for years, but as I grew open to seeing new things, applying for jobs all over the country, it grew on me and I still new the right job, place, and situation would open up in time. The job I accepted did mean a new town, new place, new people, new surroundings and many new opportunities. I was scared, nervous, had two young children, but I KNEW and TRUSTED that all would work out! Even my day to interview at the site location was insanely meant to be - rentals, schools, After school care, even a group of belly dancers helped me see if the puzzle pieces would fit - and they all 'magically' fell together.
Since moving here, things have been challenging, sure, I do not have Rose-Colored glasses on - but they have not been as difficult as I had thought - no crying, no wanting to move back, nothing. I'm really wearing my big girl panties! It is what it is and I moved here to embrace this change and give it a real shot. And by giving it a real shot that sometimes means making myself be outside my box in meeting people, trying new things, and it has been FUN!
So, the job is wonderful and going far better than any other and better than expected - what a relief! The kids have been adjusting and getting better and better. We are all making friends, joining in things, and finding cool things to do here. I even accepted a date with a nice fella and have been enjoying myself immensely on that front as well.
Life's changes - I've experienced LOTS of new all in a year's time - embrace it, change is good for the soul, and God really doesn't give you more than you can handle - or perhaps thinks we should handle it! Growth, learning, development, skill-building...go with it! : )
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